Your teenager is a citizen of the digital world where social media is not merely a passing fad, but almost a parallel world. One where friendships begin, identities are shaped and self-validation is measured in the number of likes and views. It is a world where they may find it difficult to differentiate between the blurred lines of offline reality and the faceless online universe.
As parents, it is nearly impossible to police their activities all the time, but knowing the dangers that are out there may help you make informed decisions regarding their social media lives.
A daily reality
While you, as parents, may have adopted social media in an attempt to connect to friends and family, your teenager was born into that world. They grew up with that as their regular life. It is how they connect, express themselves, ‘build communities’ and develop their sense of self, one that is quite different from what we knew of social interactions as children.
So how do you decide when to allow them to have a social media presence, or whether to ban it entirely? Admittedly, the challenge is more about how it shapes their thoughts, emotions and how to keep them safe in the virtual world.
Teen mental health repercussions of social media
At an age where the sense of self is fragile while it searches for its strength, teenagers are particularly susceptible to fractured mental health issues. Thanks to their exposure to staged content and curated storylines, they often find it hard to differentiate between what is real and fake, leading to unreal expectations. This often leads to:
- Increase anxiety and stress
- Create fear of missing out (FOMO)
- Encourage comparison and self-doubt
- Link self-worth to online validation
Their emotional resilience is always at risk of weakening with extended, unsupervised and unchecked exposure to social media.
The comparison trap
It is a strange world that social media exposes these fragile young minds to – ones filled with filtered faces, unblemished bodies and algorithm-curated ‘perfect’ life! This is therefore an extremely harmful medium that can distort their self-worth through:
- Increased dissatisfaction with appearance
- Pressure to conform to trends
- Reduced self-esteem, especially among adolescents
What they need to be patiently and yet firmly taught over time is NOT to fall into this trap.
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Online safety issues
Emotions apart, there is always the ever-present concern of online safety that haunts us all as parents. Teenagers with their ‘know-it-all’ attitudes often fall prey to:
- Cyberbullying and online harassment
- Privacy risks and data misuse
- Exposure to inappropriate content
- Pressure from strangers or anonymous accounts
What makes this issue far more grievous is their hesitation to report these issues even at home for the fear of reprimand and ban of access. Your patience in keeping open the channels of communication with your teen is critical in navigating this uncharted territory with them. Empower them with early digital awareness and respect their fears rather than aggravate the situation for their foreseeable future.
Screen time and sleep disruptor
How often do we hear of parents complaining about finding their teen scrolling through phones and therefore very likely social media late into the night! This excessive screen exposure has far reaching consequences such as:
- Disrupting natural sleep cycles
- Reduced sleep quality
- Affecting concentration, mood and academic performance
As we mentioned earlier, cutting off access entirely will only lead to unhealthy habits such as lying or sneaking behind your back. Instead, you could follow the screen time recommendations (by age) to help find a healthy balance. No more angry outbursts or breach of trust.
Among other things to keep in mind, always, is to avoid screen usage at least an hour before bedtime. These guidelines help protect their rest periods, focus and overall mental well-being
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Why balance matters
Do you often feel like you are navigating through a veritable minefield of teenage hormones? Well, completely shutting down their access to social media will only add fuel to that fire. Instead, try to bring in guidance-based conversations.
Set up healthy habits such as:
- Setting clear screen-free times (especially before sleep)
- Encouraging offline hobbies and physical activity
- Talking openly about online experiences
- Teaching critical thinking about content and comparisons
We, at The Premia Academy, strongly advocate for Digital Literacy from an early age. To us, it is as important as academic literacy and best imparted within a learning setting such as the school.
Support in a digital world
Schools and families need to address together how social media affects teenagers. Studies have shown that students benefit when they:
- Learn emotional regulation and self-awareness
- Understand online ethics and digital footprints
- Feel safe discussing online challenges
- Are guided to use technology purposefully
Giving them a strong foundation in values, empathy, and judgment helps teenagers navigate digital spaces with confidence.
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Preparing your teenager for responsible Digital Citizenship
We learnt with time that too much of anything tends to veer towards harm, the same is true for social media, too. While not inherently harmful if used under advisement, unsupervised, this can slowly tear away at the fabric of mental health, body image, safety and sleep habits in teenagers. At Premia Academy, we equip young people to make informed choices. We advise our parent community always to not make disconnection the goal but discernment a priority. When you teach your teen to use technology responsibly, you will ultimately help them grow within it and not merely survive it.
